November 21, 1969 – January 21, 2025
It is with heavy hearts that we announce the passing of Tyronda Bermudez, who left us on January 21, 2025, surrounded by love. Ty was a woman of strength, resilience, and humor, known for her ability to light up a room with her wit and laughter.
Despite the challenges she faced throughout her life, Ty remained fiercely protective of those she loved. She was a mother, grandmother, sister, aunt, and friend who showed her love in her own unique way, often meeting people where they were and approaching them with patience—or not, depending on the day!
Her greatest joy in life was her family, especially her grandchildren, who brought out her softest and most loving side. Ty will be remembered for her immense heart, her humor, and her determination to keep moving forward no matter what life threw her way.
In her final weeks, Ty was cared for at home by her family, where she spent her last moments surrounded by love. Her children and grandchildren will carry her memory and legacy forward, holding onto the lessons she taught them and the love she gave.
Ty leaves behind a family who will forever cherish her:
Her Children
• Ashley Shepherd: “.My mom—my rock, my firecracker, my ride or die, and hands down the funniest person I’ve ever known. I don’t even know where to start. Despite everything we went through together, you always remained my mother, and no one could ever tell me otherwise. I saw everything you endured—your drive, your vulnerability, and your will to keep going—and it made me love you even more. No matter what challenges came our way, you stayed strong. Everyone who crossed paths with you said the same thing—you had the biggest heart and the most contagious sense of humor. And they’re right. You had all the bark in the world, but the heart of a lion. Your protection over the people you loved was unmatched, and when you loved someone, you showed it in your own unique way (with plenty of patience—or maybe not, haha!). You will be missed beyond words. So many people loved you, and you made an unforgettable impact on every one of us. I have so much more to say, and I’ll continue saying it to you every day in my heart. I love you, my girl, my mom, my go-to, my everything. My brothers, my sister, and I will forever love you—and no one can take that away. ”
• Shaney Hardiman: “Together once again. I love and missed you, Mom.”
• David Taylor: “Dear Mom,I’m sorry we didn’t have more time together before you passed. When you were here, you showed us all how much you cared and loved us. You had this incredible way of making us laugh and filling our hearts with joy. Your laughter and love always seemed to fill the void, no matter what we were going through.
You have always been a beautiful soul, from the very beginning and even now. Until the time we meet again, you’ll remain forever in my heart. With all my love,
• Marquese Taylor “Mom, where should I start? I’m not sure how to even write this because I missed so many opportunities to be the loving son I wanted to be. I feel like I took our relationship for granted—me as your son and you as my mother—by not spending more time with you and growing the bond we could have had. My heart hurts, and it’s heavy with regret. Mom, you were hands down the funniest person I know. Your quick comebacks could shut down anyone trying to roast you! You always had such a sharp wit and an energy that made everyone laugh. I’ll never forget the time you raised me in San Francisco—you turned me into a better man. I often regret leaving you, and I wonder how life would’ve been for both of us if I had stayed. I know it would’ve been better, and for that, I’m truly sorry. I know I was one of the most stubborn people you ever met—but I got that from you. Everyone says I’m the spitting image of you, and honestly, that makes my heart glad. Mom, God gave you to me as my mother, and I wouldn’t trade you for anyone in the world. Our family will never be the same without you, but we’ll find comfort in each other. On Tuesday, January 21, 2025, we came together—your kids and Auntie Shelly—and we’ll continue to support one another as you would want us to. The hope I have in Jehovah God is what keeps me going, and it’s the hope I want everyone in our family to embrace. I hold dear the promise of seeing you and Dad again in Paradise. (Revelation 21:3-4)
“With that I heard a loud voice from the throne say: ’Look! The tent of God is with mankind, and he will reside with them, and they will be his people. And God himself will be with them. And he will wipe out every tear from their eyes, and death will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore. The former things have passed away.’” Mom, I love you so much, and I’ll carry your memory and lessons with me always.
• Davinna Hardiman (Courtney Goshay): “ My mom faced many challenges throughout her life but remained resilient and strong. Though life separated her from her children at times, she shared her love in the ways she could. In her later years, she became a loving grandmother, forming a special bond with her grandchildren. Despite our struggles, we worked on our relationship, and in her final weeks, I had the privilege of caring for her and surrounding her with love. Her journey taught me the power of forgiveness and patience and the strength that comes from healing together. She will be remembered for her resilience, her stories, and the love she carried in her heart.
•Jayden Taylor: “I didn’t have the chance to grow up with my mom the way others might have, but that never changed the fact that she was my mom. From the very beginning, she was a part of who I am. Even though we didn’t see each other often when I was younger, I always felt her love in the moments we shared. As I got older and we spent more time together, I began to see her not just as my biological mother but as my mom. She was funny, strong, and full of life—someone I could look up to. Her love may not have always been traditional, but it was real. It was there in her laughter, her stories, and the way she carried herself through life’s challenges. I’ll always be grateful for the time we had and the bond we were able to build.
Mom, I love you, and I’ll carry you in my heart forever. Thank you for giving me life and for being a part of it, even in the way only you could. You’ll always be my mom, and I’ll always be proud to be your son.
Her Grandchildren
• Ja’Ceana: “Granny was a wonderful grandmother to Messiah and me. She was so funny, loving, and protective of her family. I’m glad we spent her last few weeks together, surrounded by love.”
• Messiah: “I love you, Granny. You will always be in our hearts, and we will miss you.”
• Kayden and Jordan Taylor: “We love you, Grandma.”
Her Siblings
• La’Chelle “ I wasn’t ready,I’m not okay. We have been through a lot. When mom passed, we only had each other. I had to be strong for all of us. Big,lil Sister! I am my sister keeper..’The Warden! The memories, the secrets My Protector, My Og.. please help me,guide me *Another lifetime , LaChelle(JD) C Williams”
• Tisia: “Ty, you will be forever in my memory until we meet again. Love ya.”
Her Nieces and Nephew
• Catia: “My Aunty: Beautiful Black Woman, Soulful Queen, Safe Haven. Someone who can give hugs like a mother, keeps secrets like a sister, and shares love like a friend. My Mothers Sister: A confidante, constant source of support throughout life, offering conditional love with a bond that can’t be duplicated. Her protector, her Og. Understanding each other on a deeper level because of their shared experiences.There’s nothing better than a big sister.My Cousins Mother: She’s shown them the purest love they’ll ever know. Becoming their first best friend, teacher, and role model. Providing emotional support, comfort, and care throughout life’s ups and downs. “All love begins and ends here”.My Lil Cousins Granny: Acted as a bridge between generations, strengthening the family’s bond. She had unconditional love for her grandchildren. Holding their tiny hands for just a little while, but remaining in their hearts forever! She is now their Grand Angel! You shook the family up with this one aunty! Our hearts will forever remain broken. Enjoy your well deserved rest! I love you! Kiss Shaney for me! Let her know that I’ve been holding it down for us! #21 🤍”
• Netesha: “My Aunt Ty was so much more than just my aunt—she was my protector, my anchor, and my second mom. From the time I was little, she always had this way of finding me, even when I thought I was lost. She never gave up on me, not once, no matter how hard things got. Whenever I needed her, she was there, and when I didn’t know I needed her, she came looking for me anyway. We shared so much—our struggles, our laughs, and our deep understanding of one another that no one else could quite grasp. My aunt never judged me for what I was going through because she knew what it felt like to face life’s hardest battles. And even though she had her own challenges, she still gave me her strength when I couldn’t find my own.
We used to laugh when people said I was her real daughter, but deep down, I think that’s exactly how she saw me. She loved me fiercely, just like a mother would, and that love carried me through so many dark moments. She was my rock, my safe place, and my biggest cheerleader. Aunt Ty, I miss you more than words can say. Your love was like no other, and I’ll hold onto it forever. You’ll always be in my heart, and I’ll keep working to make you proud. Rest easy, knowing how much you’re loved—always and forever.
• Jakuan: “Love you, Aunty Ty. I’ll miss you. I’ll always remember the times you and my Dad would drop me off at football practice or when I’d hang out at your place eating everything. Forever your nephew, Jakuan.”
•Tayana & Makayla Shaw “Though we didn’t get to spend as much time with Aunt Ty as we would have liked, her presence in our family was undeniable. She was strong, funny, and full of life, and we always admired her resilience and the love she had for those closest to her. Her memory will live on in the stories we’ve heard, the laughter she shared, and the bonds she helped create in our family. Aunt Ty, you will always hold a special place in our hearts. Rest peacefully, knowing you are loved.
While our hearts are heavy, we take comfort in knowing she is at peace. Ty will be deeply missed but never forgotten.
Blessing: May Tyronda’s soul find eternal peace and rest in the arms of the Creator. May her strength and love continue to guide and protect her family. May her laughter echo in the hearts of those she touched, and may her spirit live on through the love and memories of her children, grandchildren, siblings, and nieces, and nephew and all who knew her.
Viewing Service
Saturday, February 1, 2025
1:00 PM – 4:00 PM
Location: Scott Funeral Home
1215 M.L.K. Jr Way, Tacoma, WA 98405
Repast
4:30 PM – 7:30 PM
Location: The Caballeros
1516 S 28th St, Tacoma, WA 98409
Join us as we celebrate Ty’s life and the impact she had on all who knew her.
Heartbroken
Miss you Sis 😢
We Miss you so much..
Yesterday, today, tomorrow and 4ever Sis